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The Power to Change Your Life Lies in Hard Choices

Saying no to a friend, a colleague, or a family member. Speaking up when you're afraid—staying quiet when others are not.  Exercising, avoiding crappy food and booze, steering clear of drama, and gossip. They're not called hard choices for…
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If You Want More Freedom Create Better Boundaries

It sounds counterintuitive, doesn't it?  Boundaries are lines that mark limits, and freedom is the power to act, speak, or think without restraint.  If those definitions are accurate, how it possible to have more freedom by creating limits? Aren't…
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I'm a verbal affirmation junkie.

There. I said it. I'm a verbal affirmation junkie, an addict if you will.  I'm addicted to words and praise and adoration from other people. As I write, I'm battling the fantasies of comments I'll get (or won't get) in response.  The…
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What would you say today if you knew tomorrow you'd never speak again?

Don’t gloss over this question with the standard response, “I’d tell my loved ones how much I love them.” Of course, you would. Go deeper. There’s more, isn’t there?  More people you’d talk to? More questions you’d ask?…
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You're Built for a Time Such as This

You're built for a time such as this. My friend, I can't think of anyone better to handle what's going on in the world right now than you. Yep, you.  There's no one I can think of that's better equipped to handle the impact of health,…
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"I'm feeling a little resistance"

My friend Jen and I send each other messages over Voxer pretty much daily.  We’re small business owners and self-proclaimed nerds trying to figure out the world of entrepreneurship. We share war stories, successes, and do our best to hold…
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Finding your voice is a consistent choice

“The path to finding your real voice is just one click away!”   “Find your true voice in just two days!”   “Seven steps to finding your authentic voice…”   Can we please stop now? Despite what popular…
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About that LinkedIn post...

As soon as I clicked post, my gut twisted.  That's not a good sign. You see, I'm committed to telling you the truth about what it's like to be a speaker, and I didn't live up to that commitment. I put up a post on LinkedIn about my success…
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Can we talk?

According to Gallup's recent State of the American Workplace report, only 22% of U.S. employees strongly agree that their company's leaders have a clear direction for their organization. And only 13% strongly agree that their organization's…